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November
2006
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Small Church, Big
Outreach
St. Thomas’ a Standout in Wharton
by Carol E. Barnwell




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Clothing and other donations are priced for
sale at St. Thomas’ Thrift Shop, Wharton. |
Ninety-seven percent of the active membership of St.
Thomas’, Wharton, is involved in the church’s ministry. That includes
four-year-old Caroline who regularly carries stacks of bulletins from the
copy machine to the folks waiting to fold them. Eighty percent of the
average attendance is involved in ministry outside the church, said their
rector, Lance Ousley.
“Leadership is shared here,” Ousley said, adding that a
spirit of empowerment moves from one generation to the next. As a result,
the proportion of ministry the church provides to the surrounding
community is huge in comparison with their average Sunday attendance (ASA)
of around 95.
Ousley values face to face ministry for those who are
able to participate. “I believe in incarnational ministries,” he said.
“Some people can only write a check and that is wonderful, but for those
who are able, it is important to be involved in the programs we support.”
The church is known throughout the community for their
outreach, Ousley said, explaining that outreach flows naturally from a
focus on hospitality. “It means we welcome all people and we reach out in
order to do that,” he said, noting that the church functions more like a
program-sized church (250 ASA).
Ousley believes in doing ministry, “showing faith
through our lives.”
“We don’t have growth in our population in Wharton but
we have growth within our hearts and that is apparent to others who want
to be part of an authentic life of Christ,” he said.
Empowered and Shared Ministry
Ousley not only supports the leadership in their ministries, he empowers
them by sharing administration of his discretionary fund. “If a non-member
of the parish needs help, the outreach team administers the funds. If it’s
a member, I write the check,” he explained. “I oversee the fund, but its
uses are shared.”
This model came about while the church was between rectors and
parishioners were the only ones responding to those seeking assistance for
rent, food, vouchers for clothing or utility assistance. The model
continued after Ousley came in 2004 to the extent that the church has to
set up appointments for intake interviews. That assistance includes a
social service program, access to the MEHOP (Matagorda Episcopal Health
Outreach Program) mobile clinic, sack lunches and help with insurance
co-pays and acute care prescriptions.
We tried to find the gaps in medical assistance programs,” said St.
Thomas’ Outreach Coordinator Curtis Wilkins. That includes agreements with
some local doctors for eye exams and glasses and with local dentists for
dental needs. MEHOP provides the medical screening.
Before school starts, whole families come for immunizations. Wharton
County has a lot of uninsured people. Up to eight people from the church
volunteer with MEHOP each week. “We serve breakfast and lunch to the
people who come,” said Cynthia Tobola, who also works at the church’s
thrift shop. The parish raised $35,000 to help build a standing facility
in Bay City so that the mobile clinic could continue to come to Wharton.
Recently they helped an 80 year old woman get the extensive dental work
she needed before being able to have a hip replacement. There was no other
program that would have assisted her.
Thrifty Funds
St. Thomas’ has run a very successful thrift shop for more than 25 years.
The stacks of blue jeans alone would make a teenager weak in the knees.
Starched shirts from Brooks Brothers share the rack with vintage Hawaiian
and western shirts with pearl snaps. Coffee mugs and cut crystal are
displayed next to stacks of books, some new, some musty with age. The shop
provides a tax write off for the donors and people who buy items get a
good value. Funds raised are multiplied through other outreach programs.
“Volunteers also minister to many of the people who shop at the Thrift
Store,” Ousley said. They provide a caring ear and often refer people to
the church for further help.
“We get excited with a $300 day at the Thrift Shop. Different volunteer
crews have a healthy competition because they know the money means we can
do more,” he said.
A Public Ministry
The prayer shawl ministry meets on Tuesday morning at a local coffee shop
near the Thrift Shop. “We wanted to do it in a central place, in public
where people would have a chance to talk about what they were doing when
asked,” Ousley said. The group of knitters has become very ecumenical. The
dozen women have made more than 100 shawls in a year and have sent them
all over the world, to troops in Iraq, to local nursing homes, to church
members and others.
A Hand Up
Wilkins owns a tree farm in nearby Glen Flora. This father of five knows
that patience is part of growing things. He interviewed six or seven
people Tuesday morning, the last woman, who was very hard of hearing,
bellowed at him about her plumbing problems. Wilkins spoke gently but
firmly, eventually arriving at what would be most helpful for her.
“This is a rural community. Basic needs are universal-food and housing.
Our limitation is a lack of places to refer people,” he said. “People are
getting hammered with utility bills,” and St. Thomas’ is one of only two
churches that provide any direct assistance.
“I look beyond today’s request,” Wilkins explained. “I have to take time
to get them to think about next month so they are not coming back.” When
people arrive with a disconnect notice, he talks about managing the crisis
and not waiting until the last minute. He often adds a question about cell
phones into the conversation. “If they have one, I ask them which is more
important. We talk about priorities and budgeting,” he said.
Sometimes the intake interviews are frustrating. This
morning a 75-year-old woman living on $88 a month in social security is
not able to qualify for other assistance because she has a small piece of
farm land. Another person who is single and disabled receives $599 monthly
in social security and qualifies for only $20 in food stamps. Poverty,
poor choices, spousal abuse—all contributing factors to the needs within
the community.
Challenges
With the multiplicity of outreach occurring at St. Thomas’, the issue is
growing pains. Choices are based on a vision of “stepping into the gap,”
Ousley said. “Where is the community hurting? Where can we be present?”
The Thrift Shop can’t expand their hours without more volunteers. They
can’t raise more dollars without more hours.
“We are maxed out but we celebrate what we are doing and we keep it ‘out
there,’” Ousley said. “We try to help people feel their way. We don’t bail
people out but we help them carry some of the responsibility so they can
gain the ability to do more. The Baptismal Covenant says we are to respect
the dignity of every human being,” he added, acknowledging that there is
growth in the midst of crisis.
Ministry blesses those who do it, Ousley believes. It
builds a stronger community and that identity is important to the
congregation. “It gives us an incarnational experience,” he said. “St.
Thomas is the face of Christ in this town.”